
[First Bank Webinar] Homebuyer Happy Hour March 2025
Event Details: Date: Thursday, March 13, 2025 Time: 6:30 pm to 7:30 pm Location: Zoom Webinar (link provided upon registration) What to Expect: Our First Bank mortgage experts will share information about understanding budgeting and credit to help you on your journey to homeownership. Topics covered include: Budgeting basics: how to set your budget, unexpected expenses to look out for Credit expectations: what mortgage lenders look for Building credit: credit factors, tips to improve your credit score Meet our First Bank Experts: Jarrod Burcham | Mortgage Loan Originator | Greensboro, NC Jarrod pledges professional service and personal attention while finding the right mortgage that fits your needs. Whether you are looking to purchase your first home, build your next, refinance your current home, buy an investment property or purchase a vacation rental, Jarrod will guide you through the home loan process. Monica Moses | Community Mortgage Officer | Apex, NC As Community Mortgage Officer, Monica serves as a liaison for the mortgage loan originators regarding community outreach in underserved markets. One of her focuses is educating potential homeowners by participating in homebuyer workshops in low to moderate income areas. Monica’s role allows First Bank to build connections with minority realtors and builders while enhancing the visibility of our organization. Register for Homebuyer Happy Hour: Our knowledgeable panel shared their experiences and provided actionable insights during our Homebuyer Happy Hour to help you make informed decisions about homebuying. We will be posting the Q&As from the session to view on our website soon so you won’t miss any valuable expert insights. Keep an eye on our website for updates, and feel free to reach out to one of our loan officers if you have any mortgage questions.
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What is Financial Abuse?
Key Aspects of Financial Abuse Financial abuse is a hidden but devastating form of control that often leaves victims economically trapped and vulnerable. It can happen in any type of relationship, whether it’s between partners, family members, or caregivers and their dependents. By understanding the tactics used by abusers and the steps to regain financial independence, victims and their supporters can take meaningful action to break free and rebuild their lives. Control and Restriction One of the primary tactics of financial abuse is restricting the victim’s access to financial resources. The abuser may withhold money or enforce a strict allowance, limiting the victim’s ability to spend freely. They might restrict access to bank accounts, credit cards, or cash, ensuring complete financial dependency. In many cases, victims are required to justify every expense, creating a climate of fear and uncertainty around financial decisions. Additionally, abusers may steal or control their victim’s identification documents like their driver’s license and social security card as well as important papers like marriage and divorce documents, birth certificates, and mortgage or property documents—with the goal of opening accounts in the victims name without their knowledge. By controlling their victim’s financial access and identification, the abuser reinforces their dominance, making it increasingly difficult for the victim to assert independence. This lack of financial freedom can leave victims feeling trapped, with few options to break free from the abuse. Exploitation of Resources Financial abuse often involves the direct exploitation of their victim’s financial resources for the abuser’s personal gain. This can include unauthorized use of the victim’s credit cards or assets, leading to mounting debt in their name. Some abusers force their partners to cover all household expenses while contributing little or nothing themselves. In more severe cases, victims may be coerced into accumulating debt under their own name, leaving them financially burdened long after the relationship ends. These tactics create significant financial hardship, making it even more difficult for victims to escape the abusive situation. Sabotage of Economic Independence Many abusers deliberately work to prevent their victims from achieving financial independence. They may prohibit them from working or pursuing educational opportunities, limiting career advancement and personal growth. Even when victims manage to secure employment, abusers often sabotage their job performance by causing disruptions, harassing them at work, or withholding essential resources such as transportation or childcare. In some cases, abusers also hide or misrepresent joint assets, ensuring that their victims remain unaware of their true financial standing. By keeping their victim economically dependent, the abuser strengthens their control, reducing the victim’s ability to leave the relationship and start anew. Financial Secrecy and Isolation Secrecy and economic isolation are also common tactics in financial abuse. Abusers may conceal important financial information, such as income, debts, or household expenses, leaving the victim completely in the dark about their financial situation. In addition to withholding financial knowledge, abusers often restrict interactions with family and friends who could provide financial assistance or guidance. This isolation ensures that the victim has no financial safety net, making it even harder to seek help or escape the abusive situation. Post-Separation Abuse In relationships, financial abuse does not always end when the relationship does. Many abusers continue using financial tactics to exert control over their victims even after separation. They may prolong divorce proceedings to increase legal costs and drain the victim’s resources. Refusing to pay child support or alimony is another way abusers cause financial distress, making it difficult for survivors to maintain stability. Some even manipulate shared assets or debts to create ongoing financial hardship. These post-separation struggles can make it incredibly challenging for survivors to rebuild their lives. Recognizing and Addressing Financial Abuse Financial abuse is often an invisible form of control that can have long-term effects on a victim’s financial stability and emotional well-being. Recognizing the signs and taking action is essential. Here are some steps that can help: Educate yourself and others: Awareness is the first step toward addressing financial abuse. Learning about its signs can help victims recognize when they are being manipulated. Reach out for support: Support networks, including friends, family, and domestic violence organizations, can offer critical assistance in navigating financial abuse. The National Domestic Violence Hotline is a free, confidential and 24/7 resource that offers tools and support to help survivors of domestic violence. Seek professional advice: Financial counselors, domestic violence advocates, and legal professionals can provide guidance on regaining financial control. Open a separate bank account: If possible, setting up an independent bank account can help create a financial escape plan. Document financial abuse: Keeping records of financial transactions, unauthorized debts, and hidden assets can be valuable in legal proceedings. Breaking the Cycle of Financial Abuse By understanding its various forms, recognizing its signs, and taking proactive steps, survivors of financial abuse can regain financial independence and break free from abusive relationships. It is essential to continue raising awareness and advocating for stronger protections against financial abuse to support those affected and prevent further harm.
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7 Songs to Play After Closing on Your New Home
When you finally close on your new home, we recommend loading up your MP3 player (or, if you’re old school, burning a CD or making a mixtape) with these seven songs to kick off your celebration!
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Budgeting 101: Personal Budget Categories
When it comes to creating a personal budget, it can feel like there are a million financial categories to consider. In order to create a successful budget, everything should be accounted for, from large expenses like your mortgage and car payment to smaller expenses like your gym membership and Netflix subscription. A list of recommended personal budget categories is a great place to start when creating a budget. Here are two ways you can get the most out of the list: Go through the list and check off each category that applies to you, then add those categories/items to your personal budget spreadsheet. Create a comprehensive list of everything you spend each month, then go through the categories list to see if there is anything you might have forgotten and need to add to you personal budget spreadsheet. Recommended Budgeting Categories Consider including these categories when you create your own budget: Housing Mortgage or rent Property taxes Household repairs HOA fees Transportation Car payment Car warranty Gas Tires Maintenance and oil changes Parking fees Repairs Registration and DMV Fees Food Groceries Restaurants Pet food Utilities Electricity Water Garbage Phones Cable Internet Clothing Adults’ clothing Adults’ shoes Children’s clothing Children’s shoes Medical/Healthcare Primary care Dental care Specialty care (dermatologists, orthodontics, optometrists, etc.) Urgent care Medications Medical devices Insurance Health insurance Homeowner’s or renter’s insurance Home warranty or protection plan Auto insurance Life insurance Disability insurance Household Items/Supplies Toiletries Laundry detergent Dishwasher detergent Cleaning supplies Tools Personal Gym memberships Haircuts Salon services Cosmetics (like makeup or services like laser hair removal) Babysitter Subscriptions Debt Personal loans Student loans Credit cards Retirement Financial planning Investing Education Children’s college Your college School supplies Books Savings Emergency fund Big purchases like a new mattress or laptop Other savings Gifts/Donations Birthday Anniversary Wedding Christmas Special occasion Charities Entertainment Alcohol and/or bars Games Movies Concerts Vacations Subscriptions (Netflix, Amazon, Hulu, etc.) Get Professional Personal Finance Advice Give First Bank’s free MyMoney tool in online and mobile banking a try to get started on your budget or to calculate your net worth. If you need guidance from a professional when creating your budget, find a First Bank near you. You can also learn more about different types of banking services, personal budgeting, saving money, investing and more using First Bank’s online Financial
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